{"id":310,"date":"2023-03-15T20:45:37","date_gmt":"2023-03-15T08:45:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taliskersh.com\/?p=310"},"modified":"2024-03-22T15:22:55","modified_gmt":"2024-03-22T03:22:55","slug":"why-im-staying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/taliskersh.com\/?p=310","title":{"rendered":"The Japan Times – Why they’re staying"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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David Leong, from Auckland, New Zealand, said that his year in Japan wasn’t without challenges. Nonetheless, he’s ready for another.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The contracts offered to most foreign English teachers in Japan tie one to their schools for a full year. It\u2019s no small commitment for someone amidst the heady uncertainty of their 20s, which many of these teachers are. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

David Leong\u2019s first year was intense but, without hesitation, he signed on for another. Katherine Patz, Hunter Grin and Gogo Salaswat did the same. Over the break, I talked with these ALTs (assistant language teachers) about why they chose to take this leap, and what they want from their second year in Japan.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This article was published in the Japan Times. Click here<\/a> to read that version. For the unedited version, read on<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cast <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Gogo Salaswat<\/strong>, 27, lives in Niigata prefecture. She moved there in October 2021 from Tucson, Arizona. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Katherine Patz, <\/strong>23, <\/strong>lives in Ishikawa prefecture. She is originally from Tulsa, Oklahoma. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hunter Grin<\/strong>, 25, moved from Manhattan, Kansas to Niigata City in May, 2022. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

David Leong<\/strong>, 26, is from Auckland, New Zealand. He\u2019s been living in Niigata prefecture since November 2021.  <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The year that\u2019s been<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

For our cast of teachers, 2022 was tumultuous. It brought each to thrilling highs and grinding lows. Katherine Patz described her first year in Hakusan, Ishikawa prefecture, in glowing terms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI would say my first year has been a really positive experience,\u201d said Patz, \u201cit was honestly such a magical year, I got to do some traveling, I met so many wonderful people, I really fell in love with this area.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She recalled reading online a litany of horror stories from English teachers in Japan, \u201cI think that fueled so much of my anxiety about coming here,\u201d she said, \u201cit’s easy to go on the internet and be like, \u2018that’s gonna be me, I’m doomed\u2019 (…) so I came in super motivated, thinking \u2018I’m gonna make friends, I’m gonna be a good teacher, I’m gonna make the most of it.\u2019 I think, to get by, you have to repeat these things to yourself.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Patz attributes her joyous first year, in part, to this mantra. Another factor was her placement. \u201cI didn\u2019t choose to live in Ishikawa,\u201d she said, \u201cwhen they asked my preference, I wrote down Kyoto. When I got placed in Hakusan, I had no idea where that was.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Patz soon found that Hakusan is an oft-rainy corner of western Honshu, home to a community into which she readily integrated. The warmth of that community helped define her first year in Japan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Katherine Patz, from Tulsa, fell in love with Hakusan, \u201cit was honestly such a magical year, I got to do some traveling, I met so many wonderful people, I really fell in love with this area.\u201d<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Patz also learned a lot about herself. \u201cI think I built some more trust in myself, I realized I can take on these kinds of challenges and actually do well and thrive.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Looking back at 2022, Hunter Grin feels a similar sense of achievement. \u201cI’ve never studied abroad outside of my country,\u201d said Grin. \u201cSo going off into the deep end and moving to a foreign country where English is not the main language\u2026\u201d Grin paused to consider, \u201cI can say I’m pretty proud of myself for keeping my head.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Like Patz, he enjoyed his first year in Japan and is eager for more, driven by a desire to get the most out of this opportunity. \u201cI don’t know the next time I’ll be able to go to a foreign country,\u201d he told me, \u201cliving here has been one of the top things on my bucket list and I want to stay here as long as I can.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gogo Salaswat\u2019s first year was challenging. She lives in Joetsu, a town in the heart of snow country. For an Arizona native and self-proclaimed \u201cdesert rat,\u201d the change in climate was especially tough. \u201cI think I was just trying to take it day by day,\u201d she said, referring to the oppressive cold and snow which smothers Joetsu in winter. Adverse weather, knowing no one, and seldom being able to talk with the people she met presented constant hurdles. However, these hurdles uncovered a level of resilience that she didn\u2019t know existed. \u201cI had a lot of new experiences and pushed myself,\u201d said Salaswat. \u201cI think overall, despite the challenges, it was very eye-opening.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leong\u2019s first few months were also tough. He too lives in Joetsu, albeit a snowier part. After a grueling winter shoveling snow whilst navigating the pitfalls of culture shock and homesickness, Leong figured that if he could make it in Joetsu, he could make it anywhere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I spoke to Leong on the cusp of another winter. \u201cThe thing that I’ve learned above all is that Japan’s just another place, and you’ll live life no matter what, \u201c he said, \u201cI think at the end of the day, as long as you’re willing to adapt and be flexible, people can live anywhere. I mean, it’s freaking cold at the moment, but we’re still here having a good time.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The year ahead<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Andrew Spearman, Kristjan Bernot and Clayton Steed have worked as ALTs in Japan for over four years. These experienced teachers have shepard-like roles playing instructor, counselor, guide, and interpreter for new arrivals. Throughout one\u2019s journey teaching in Japan, their perspective is invaluable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe first year is all about finding your footing.\u201d said Spearman, \u201cdifferent parts of your life are flung up into the air once you touch ground here. Your second year is when those things start to settle and you find out what sticks.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grin\u2019s experience reflects this idea. \u201cI think going into my second year, I can view Japan with less anxiety because I’ve kind of gone off the deep end and done a lot of things that are outside of my comfort zone,\u201d said Grin.\u201cI was stressed about traveling,\u201d he confessed, \u201cbut now that I have a grasp of Japan’s trains and a little bit of Japanese under my belt, I really want to start exploring this country.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI’ve never studied abroad outside of my country,\u201d said Hunter Grin, 25. \u201cI’m pretty proud of myself for keeping my head.\u201d<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Bernot stressed that exploring Japan is crucial in one\u2019s second year. \u201cNow that you have gotten somewhat used to your environment, go outside and meet people,\u201d he said, \u201cthe more people you meet, the more connections and friends you can make. With that, your confidence and Japanese skill will improve and it will save you from boredom. This exponentially improves the quality of your life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Steed agreed with Bernot. \u201cThe second year is your time to really step outside your comfort zone, go to new places and find new experiences.\u201d he said, \u201cbe proactive in filling your time, deepening friendships with people you’ve met in Japan, and venturing out to see more of what Japan has to offer. Most opportunities aren’t just going to fall into your lap.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If Steed could give one piece of advice to his first-year self, it would be to interact with more Japanese people. \u201cIt can be easy to go to other ALTs or teachers that speak English,\u201d he said, \u201cbut I think you end up missing out on a big part of what living in Japan has to offer if you aren’t talking and being with the locals.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obviously, the key to interacting with Japanese people is speaking Japanese. Patz can feel her Japanese improving day after day. This feeling, she said, is a big part of why she\u2019s staying in Japan. \u201cI love seeing how well I was able to speak and communicate this time last year versus now,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Patz\u2019s measure of language ability will be the friendships she can make and maintain, as well as the depth of conversation that she\u2019s able to hold. \u201cI want to keep creating more relationships and have better conversations with the people I know,\u201d said Patz, \u201cthat\u2019s a big reason why I want to stay.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beyond improving relationships, Bernot said that studying Japanese is the key to a stress-free life in Japan.\u201cA lot of ALTs struggle with the transition from being a fully functioning member of society in their own countries to being a lot more helpless here in Japan due to not knowing the language.\u201d he said, \u201cknowing and being able to actively use Japanese will help with your mental well-being.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Salaswat, looking back at her first year in Japan, said that another key to her mental well-being has been the acceptance of imperfection. \u201cI would tell my first-year self to take it easy. I don\u2019t have to constantly compare myself to others, I don\u2019t have to be on my A-game 100% of the time, and nobody expects me to know every answer,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI had a lot of new experiences and pushed myself,\u201d said Gogo Salaswat, pictured above by Naena falls in Niigata prefecture,\u201cI think overall, despite the challenges, it was very eye-opening.\u201d<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

With the temporary nature of her job as an ALT comes a degree of pressure to do as much as possible, unless one misses out on the \u201cperfect\u201d experience. If Salaswat could change anything about her first year, she\u2019d let go of that expectation. \u201cI would not make so many commitments nor feel obligated to do so many activities just because of my role as an ALT,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spearman gave similar advice. \u201cTo make the most of your second year, try to figure out what your priorities are and then work them into your rhythm,\u201d he said, \u201cif you think the first year went by quickly, they only get quicker.\u201d If Spearman could consult his first-year self, \u201cI\u2019d tell myself to be courteous but to stop wasting time people-pleasing and chasing empty projects. You become your surroundings, so put your energy into the groups, activities, and people who help you grow.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Accepting imperfection and managing his energy are lessons Leong is excited to take into 2023. For this reason, among others, leaving Japan this year is inconceivable. Like the rest of our cast, he feels as though he\u2019s only just acquired the tools that will help him explore the country the way he wants. \u201cThe adventure hasn’t really felt like it’s reached a conclusion.\u201d said Leong, \u201cI feel like there’s just so much more of Japan I can experience.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he could give one piece of advice to a teacher on the cusp of re-applying for a second year in Japan, Spearman would say this, \u201cpractically speaking, just ask yourself what kind of person you want to be or what kind of skills you want to have at the end of the experience,\u201d said Spearman. \u201cStay as long as you need to in order to make that happen.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spearman also added that, between choosing to stay or leave Japan, neither decision is wrong. \u201cBe happy with whichever decision you make.\u201d He advised, \u201cback home, you have friends and family who love and miss you. Here in Japan, you\u2019re budding new friends and you\u2019ve still got so much more that remains undiscovered. Both paths will lead to your growth. Your loved ones shouldn\u2019t mind waiting for you, and Japan isn\u2019t going anywhere either.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Teaching in Japan isn\u2019t for everyone. Japan isn\u2019t for everyone. For every enthusiastic teacher signing on for another year in 2023, as our cast have, there\u2019s also a story like Tim Lomax\u2019s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lomax moved from New Zealand to Tottori prefecture in late 2021. His move to Japan marked the natural conclusion to a lifetime of interest in Japan and its culture. A talented photographer, Lomax traveled to Tohoku in the wake of 3\/11 where he produced a moving series of portraits that further confirmed his desire to make Japan home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the nervous period before leaving home, Lomax was the picture of calm. He\u2019d worked too hard to not make it to Japan, he told me. He felt in his bones that it was where he was supposed to be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yet, after an inaugural winter marred by illness and family tragedy, Lomax was struggling. Some days, he could barely leave his bed. He felt isolated, driving daily to the same desolate school staffed by teachers unable to help him in the ways that he needed. He eventually cut his contract short and left Japan, returning home the following spring. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lomax\u2019s story exemplifies the acronymic mantra for foreign English teachers in Japan, ESID – Every Situation Is Different. No matter one\u2019s motivation, one\u2019s skillset or optimism; in the wrong situation, anyone can falter. What\u2019s important to remember is that that\u2019s okay. Moving to another country is a big decision. Remaining, equally so. It bears repeating Spearman\u2019s belief that, as with all such decisions, there are no wrong answers. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Across each conversation I had with Patz, Grin, Salaswat and Leong, there was a profound sense that their adventure in Japan had only just begun. After an intense year rocked by culture shock, language misadventure and the pitfalls of living alone, this lucky group found their sea legs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

With that discovery came a renewed sense of determination; to learn: to meet new people: and to strike out across their adopted home with confidence. \u201cI still have yet to see the northernmost point of Japan, the southernmost point of Japan and everything in between,\u201d said Leong, \u201cafter that, I\u2019ll go home.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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